Working with Me

People don't usually lose themselves all at once.

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It happens slowly. You make a few compromises, edit yourself when maybe you shouldn't, stay in something longer than you know you should, or simply do what needs to be done because life needs to keep moving.

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Most of us have done some version of it.

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The problem comes when you get so good at managing your life that somewhere along the way, you realize you're not all that happy living it.

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I know something about that.

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I don't maintain an open coaching practice. On rare occasions, I work privately with a few people who want someone willing to look at what's really going on and not dance around it.

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Maybe it's their work, their marriage, or a decision they've been avoiding. Maybe they've accomplished almost everything they set out to do and still find themselves wondering, Is this as good as it gets?

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Or maybe they just know something needs to change and haven't been willing to say it out loud yet.

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That's usually where I come in.

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I don't offer a program or some ten-step process, and I'll rarely tell you what to do.

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We'll talk about what's actually going on. I'll ask some direct questions and tell you what I see, even when it may not be what you want to hear. How deep and how wide we go is largely up to you.

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Sometimes that changes something big. Other times it doesn't.

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But at least we're not going to bullshit each other about it.​​

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If you've read this far and something about it makes sense to you, you're welcome to reach out.​